Wednesday, December 10, 2008


Everyone has been asking for more pictures so here is one Cody took last night. You can see the scar on Ben's chest. It looks really good I think. He was still pretty sleepy yesterday since he had been sedated and paralyzed to have the chest tube put in. I guess Cody talked to the NP today who said that because Ben is making such slow progress the doctors will talk to the surgeons about only waiting another five days or so to see if there is enough of an improvement, otherwise they recommend he go back to the operating room to see if there is anything they can do for that mitral valve. We have been hoping that he would be doing much better by now but more complications keep happening, daily, and I think the dr's are worried that he might not be progressing at all and that the longer they wait he could get an infection he simply couldn't fight off since he has had so many tubes and wires in him for so long. So more of the waiting for Cody and I; I suppose we'd always meant to learn patience. Hmm. Well... I took a picture of Ben with his Binky in because it was so cute but it didn't turn out very well, I'll have to try again tomorrow so I can post that. I love a baby with a binky! I've been home for a full day with the girls and it has been bliss (even though we had to get our flu shots). They are the most darling girlies ever! It will be good to be back to the ICU tomorrow though, I don't know why I don't trust anyone to look after Ben if I'm not there.
In other news, Aimee has a dance recital next week so watch for the pictures, Jocelyn did well on her mid-year reviews in school, Cody is busily back to work and right now the Lakers are winning so he's very happy, and I have (even though I said I never would) joined the Twilight band-wagon. Laura lent me books to read at the hospital, it was in the sack and I read it yesterday. I know I am behind because there are three more books and a movie I need to get started on but don't worry, I am working out a plan to catch up. Thanks again for the prayers for Benji and our whole family--we feel them and they help!

6 comments:

April said...

Oh Ang, what a sweet little boy, he is so cute. I am sorry for all the mess, I hope he shows those Dr's whos boss in the next 5 days so he doesn't have to have surgery.

The Sherman's said...

Thanks for the update, I've of course been thinking about you guys everyday and wondering how everything is going. I'm so sorry progress has been slow and sad to hear about the blood clot, chest tube and the possibility of another surgery so soon. I hope you enjoyed twilight and things start to look up hill a little bit.

Mike and Diane said...

Ang! Since the day I met you, many years ago, I knew you would be a wonderful mom. And you are. Even though my family is not involved with yours anymore, my heart and prayers go out to your little guy. What a sweet little spirit he is. I looked at the his pictures and he is definately a fighter. You are a strong mother with a wonderful husband. I also know that Heavenly Father is looking over you and your little ones. Take comfort in that. I still love ya...that won't change.

Diane

Jenny said...

My heart just aches for you both. He is just the cutest little boy. I think he looks like Cody. I want to see a binkie pic because I like those too!

Even though it may seem that others lives have moved on and you are left to pick up the pieces, we are still all praying for you and you are in our thought constantly!

WE would love a play date with the girls if you need some help. ANY time!

Anonymous said...

Hey girly... It is so good that you are FINALLY getting into Twilight! Now you will be able to understand all of our OBSESSION! I saw the movie for the second time this weekend and had to start the books over again cause I just love them... I'm halfway through the last one and I'll be sad when I'm finished....
Laura said she was goin to the hospital tonight... have fun sis!
Love ya!

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